I was at a small group meeting at church tonight where men discuss overcoming life’s hurts, habits and hang ups. It’s called ‘Celebrate Recovery’. It’s a 12 Step Program that is for anyone, any age with any issue. The 12 steps were originally designed to help alcoholics and addicts recover from the grips of their disease. However the steps can be applied to any life situation! Tonight the discussion was about overcoming fears that hold us back in life; whether in our relationships, goals, or even just our peace of mind. I wanted to share what God has been showing me about overcoming fear. What’s the opposite of fear? Faith. But how do you get faith? Not just faith that God exists, or that you are saved, but real, life changing, FAITH? That’s the magic question all of us Christians and non believers alike struggle with every day. Well, it’s simple but not easy…Simple? Am I crazy?! Well no, actually I have a more realistic, grounded view now than ever before! Are you ready? Ok, here goes… Fear is the wall that blocks us from faith. So we’ve defined the problem, now what’s the solution? As I said before, simple BUT NOT EASY. Over the past year I have overcome all kinds of fears; fear of falling in love again, fear of rejection, fear of losing things that I already have, or fear of not getting something I want. Blah Blah Blah… The list goes on and on…Sound familiar? So how am I doing this? The answer is I AM NOT. God is. ‘Oh great,’ you say. This may not be the answer you want to hear, but hang with me for just a little longer. I mentioned the steps, and you have probably opened the link and skimmed over it and said what is this malarkey? We are powerless without God~ How do we get the power of God? By surrendering to His Will. God will reveal His plan to us by the power of the Spirit through prayer and His word. When I ask the Lord sincerely from my heart in prayer to remove the lures of this world and to fill me with the truth, He always answers. The answers can come from messages we receive from people, or from scripture, or even from a seeming coincidence. God is always moving, we just have to “tune in”. When I take the time to read the instruction manual for living (the Bible), God calms the storms of this life and and gives me purpose and certainty in an uncertain world. When I ask for direction in prayer He is always listening~ My suggestion is to say this simple prayer:
“God, I need you to direct my steps. I’m afraid, but I know you will help me overcome my fear. I ask that you would remove anything in my life that is blocking me from your will. For I know that you have a beautiful purpose for me, and a plan for my life. A life that is full of peace and freedom from uncertainty. Lord give me direction and guard my steps. Make my path clear and my heart pure. I want to be a living example of my faith. A faith that you will strengthen and perfect in me, because you love me. In Jesus name, Amen”
Romans 8:15 – So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.”
In Christ’s Love,
-Vini